Thursday, June 28, 2012

TM 2 Learning the language and enjoying the ride

This is part two of my week-long trip from my friend’s house in Yangon to a couple of tourist destinations in Mynamar.
“Hoteh o sightsee first?” asked the driver.
I thought about this. I really wanted to go to the hotel. I wanted to put my stuff down and settle in but I also knew it was hot, and going to get hotter. Plus, I thought it was kind of silly to come to Bagan to see a hotel. But then I thought, “Yeah, but you really do want to put your stuff down and repack your bags for sightseeing” so I said, “Hotel.”
As I stepped in to the hotel lobby, I took out my travel voucher and handed it to the woman who was walking toward me. She greeted me warmly and directed me toward one of many wicker couches with plush cushions.
“Welcome, sit down,” she said as she took my voucher and passport. “You wait,” and walked away, toward the counter across the room.
A man approached me as soon as I sat down and gave me a hot towel. Then another person handed me a glass of fresh juice. The woman walked back across the room toward me and handed me my travel voucher.
“This is for Inle Lake,” she said (the place I was going to visit next, not the hotel I was currently at) and turned around and walked away.
I started to search desperately for the voucher for the hotel I was at.  I searched through my money belt. It wasn’t there. I searched through my backpack, it wasn’t there either. I finally took out all of my travel documents and methodically checked through each one, hoping it had just gotten caught between two other ones. I found the receipt for the travel package I had bought and thought, “I paid for this, she must know that I paid for it. Why do I have to give her that piece of paper?”
She came back and said, “Many travel documents,” and smiled.
“Maybe it is in the car?” I asked. “I go look?”
“I have,” she said.
“Oh,” I said in absolute relief. “I thought I lost it, I was looking for it.”
“Oh,” she said. “I give the Inle Lake back to you. I have Bagan.”
“Sorry,” I said.
“That’s okay,” she said. As she filled out the documents for me to sign, I looked around the lobby. Just to the left of the hotel counter was a small marquis sign. It read:
Myanmar Treasure Hotel Welcomes: Shannon Blyant
“Oh my gosh,” I thought. “I think I’m the only one here. I think I am their sole hotel guest.” And then I laughed because normally those signs are for conventions and I thought, “Oooh look, it’s the Shannon Blyant convention- and I’m the guest speaker and the only attendant. I wonder what they’re giving as door prizes.”
The woman finished filling out the form, explained it to me, and asked me to sign. She asked me about my trip and shared a bit about herself: how bored her kids are when school is out, that her daughter was 8 years old, how much she loved her country, and then she mentioned that they practice Buddhism.
“I study Buddhism, a little bit,” I said, and I motioned small, with my index finger and thumb.
“You meditate?” she asked.
“Yes,” I said smiling.
“In the morning and the night our minds are…” and she motioned in the air, a whirlwind of activity.
“Yes, yes!” I said, and we both smiled.
“My name is Kim,” she said, and offered her hand.
“I am Shannon,” I said.
“Shaw Lin,” she said.
“Shan in.”
“Shah Lin,” she said. I didn’t know what to do. Shahlin was fine but I had heard her say MyANmar and BagaAN so I knew she actually could say ShAN in. I didn’t want to insult her by smiling when I knew she was saying my name wrong- it just seemed demeaning to her intelligence.
I tried one more time: “MyANmar?  ShyANin.”
“Sha Lin” she said.
I nodded and smiled and she gave me my room key and directed me toward a man. He took my bags and walked me to my room. After he put my things down I asked, “When I want to sightsee, I go there?” and pointed to the parking lot.
“Yes,” he said and walked away.
I put my things down, put on sunscreen, walked to the parking lot, and got in the van with the same man who had picked me up at the irport. As we backed out of the parking lot he asked me, “You want Pagoda o Mal-kuh?”
I looked at him, a little bewildered. I had heard the word pagoda but I had no idea what the other choice was.
“Ummmm, I don’t know,” I said.
“Pagoda? O mal kuh?” he said again, enunciating his words.
I decided to practice right speech and just tell the truth, “I do not understand the second one. Pagoda yes. Other one?” and then I shrugged my shoulders.
“Okay,” he said.
We turned out of the driveway on to the main street and I saw lines of shops.
“Oh!” I turned to him. “Marrrket!” and smiled.
“Yes,” he said, and pointed to the shops. We veered to the left and he pointed to a bunch of people gathered around someone speaking through a megaphone.
“Democracy,” he pointed. “NLD,” he said and I saw the banner for the National League Of Democracy flying above the speaker’s head.
“I love this,” I thought to myself. “I love that democracy is a sight to see in the tour of Myanmar, that it goes right along with shops and pagodas.”
We continued to drive this way, him pointing out sights to me and describing them. At first, when he would describe things, I couldn’t tell if he was speaking to me in Burmese or English because I didn’t understand any of it. But after a while, I concluded that he must be speaking in English. And so I started to listen for English and when he described things that I could actually see or said familiar words, I listened for patterns in his accent and what he was saying. “Oh,” I thought to myself. “This is kind of like making harmony with others. I’m learning him in the same way that I learn others and myself, I’m trying to find a way for us to do this together.”
 After quite a bit of driving, I noticed that we kept driving past the pagodas, like, seemingly, all of the pagodas. He seemed to be talking about them but we weren’t  stopping at any of them.
“Hmmmm,” I thought. “I wonder if this is a driving tour of the pagodas. I wonder if we’re just going to drive past them and only see them from the outside.” And then I pictured my friend, who had said that I must go to Bagan to see the pagodas asking, “You mean you went all the way to Bagan and drove past all those pagodas and didn’t go in to any of them?” And then I pictured Paul, leaning back, opening his arms wide and shrugging his shoulders all the while saying, “That’s what it was…” with a broad smile.
And so I leaned back and decided to enjoy my driving tour of Bagan. I started looking out the window at the things beside me, instead of wondering when we would get to the pagodas and which ones we would go in to. I noticed people, and dogs. I started to see shops, and landscape. I actually started to see the place I was in, instead of imagining the place I was going to. It was cool, and I was glad to be having this tour of Bagan-  to be seeing all of the people here and their home. But then I began to wonder if this was going to be a really short tour, and what I would do with the rest of my day.
Finally, we turned off the main road and down a driveway. “Oh,” I thought. “I guess we are going in one.” (stay tuned for part 3)

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